Why do I chose to sarge without male wings

So I felt this subject to be of vital importance, enough so that I decided to put part 2 of HG Game on hold. The topic I wanna talk about is why it is great not to sarge with a wing but rather alone and if you want to take out someone take female pivots.

Lets start with my definition of a Wingman/woman. A wing is a FRIEND in whom goes out with you and provides support, social proof and DHV's during a pickup. Now my definition of a pivot is along the same lines but slightly different. A pivot is a women who not only provides social proof but also is aware enough to know when to swoop in and provide DHV spikes and comfort during an interaction. Now remember these are my definitions yours might be different.

Now let me say this. A good wing is great if you are learning or have a sticking point. They can see you in set give you advice and push you into sets when maybe you aren't in state. That is the extent of what I see is good about wings. I am going to be harsh but these are my views.

First problem I have with wings is most of them do not see it as you are friends. Mystery said it best your wingman is your friend first, your wing second. Remember when you go out with them it should be to enjoy your friends company, the pickup will come natural because you guys are in state enjoying yourselves.

Second, this will be a general statement. Unless they are your friends and you hang out outside of pickup environments the worst wings in the world are guys in the game. They tend to try and CB and AMOG worse then anyone. There is a rule whomever opens the set controls the set. Most guys in the game ignore that. Last night is a prime example. My wing who I didn't hang with outside of the club saw me in set with a 2set. Comes over out of the blue and instead of DHVing me like a good wing starts to talk shit and try and take over my set. Now I am a little more experienced so I just grabbed the girls by the hand and left but that is a display of how MOST of the guys I have met in the game are.

Now there is an exception to the rule above. IF he comes in and tries to DHV you but the set is clearly more interested in him and not in you, give it to him who cares there are plenty more sets. If you and your wing don't practice the same type of game; i.e. natural, indirect, direct, then you will come off as not congruent, also a killer in set.

I will list a few advantages I have found with having an entourage of female pivots. Women have international signals for "help me I don't wanna talk to this guy". Your pivots can pickup on that swoop in and make them comfortable. Even if that means getting them away for a minute DHVing you and returning. They are great social proof. I mean if a girl sees you with a group of girls in their head they will think "wow he cant be to big of a creep all those girls like him." Also they are great for opening sets. Women for the most part feel more comfortable with a strange woman approaching them in a club then a strange man. For example my pivot last night saw a girl that she knew was my type approached her, opened the set, brought her to me and introduced me as "the funniest, wildest, sweetest guy she knows." Also you don't have to worry about most females CBing you.

Also guys in the game tend to think because they show up to hang out with you that your pivots are automatically theirs. For the most part my pivots will help with a set if I ask but it should never be assumed, I mean more then anything my pivots are my best friends, so I am not trying to pimp them out to anyone, I worked hard to get them to help me.

Remember also that I tell my pivots about what I do in pickup and they are cool with it. They know I am not trying to treat girls bad but I want to make the interaction the best I can for me and the girl.

The Truth About Hired Gun Game Pt. 1

So there are many myths out there about Hired Gun Game, some I will agree with but I am going to dispel some of them rumors and explain why. Let me first tell you what Hired Guns or HG's for short are and why I am qualified to talk about them.

A Hired Gun or HG is a women who's job is dependant on her beauty and who is more then likely exposed to a lot of people kissing her butt because of her beauty. Some examples would be; strippers, the servers at strip clubs, models, actresses, porn stars, and many more.

I believe I am qualified to talk about this because relationship wise I only date strippers and models. 4 of my current FB's (friends with benefits) are HG's and all I have picked up at work with my tactics.

Common Rule Number 1:

Never tip or buy dances from a stripper as this will make you into customer mode. In this I am kind of in agreement with but for the most part I am not. I am in agreement that yes you should not continuously buy dances from every girl who walks up to get a dance from you, BUT rather be selective about it and yes you can and should tip some of the girls. If you are sitting by a stage throw a couple bucks up there. Anyone who has worked for tips knows that is where your bread and butter is. If you were working somewhere how would it make you feel if someone just came in and didn't pay you. As a hairstylist where tips are a huge part of my business I say it is disrespectful.

Common Rule Number 2:

NEG, NEG, NEG. This rule I totally disagree with. Look you can tease and have fun with them but you don't need to continuously point out things about her. Most of them are put on a pedestal by the vast majority of men who go in there. Just don't put her on that pedestal. Look at most of the actress' who have "average" BF or husbands what is the one thing they say. "He treated me like every other person and just didn't put me on that pedestal". That is good enough, no need to continuously neg just treat her like you would every other woman and this will set you apart from every other guy.

Some other things would be kino. It is socially acceptable to touch but throw them off guard. Don't grab there butts/breast, that's where everyone touches. Put your hand on the back of her knee. Touch places most ignore.

Last thing in this post is have fun and make it to where they have fun with you. Aside from what most people think, most strippers hate their jobs. I have known a lot and the vast majority would rather be doing something else but the pay is so good they would be stupid to leave. They are not the sexual deviants most think. So just like with anyone who has a job they hate if you can make it fun even just for a little bit they will love you for it. They will spend time with you, get to know you and actually, like in my case, pay your way in and call you just cause they look forward to you being there.

This is a brief overview. There is plenty more to come but I wanted to throw a little out there and get you started.