Monday, April 27, 2009

How can I pickup in the USA if my English is not so good?

This question was recently asked to me. And while I gave a short answer I wanted to touch on this a little in my blog.

We are a world of many nationalities and no more so then the USA. People come here for business or to live from everywhere in the world. In the seduction community and really everywhere people feel and believe that if they do not speak fluent English that they are at a disadvantage. I tend to tell people the exact opposite and here is why:

Americans love accents. Men and women alike love the sound of an accent on the opposite sex. Sure they may not know or care what the accent is but they love it. Here is why they love it; 1) Everyone knows from the material out there that one attraction switch is to be travelled. If you have an accent this automatically suggests you are travelled. 2) As we know from Mystery's theory of peacocking people like individuality. They like someone who sticks out in a crowd and is not like everyone else.

Another advantage to not being fluent in English is the fact that now you have a cover for the slip ups and pauses in a conversation. We have all been there especially when you are a newbie. You approach a person you are attracted to and you open. After about 2 minutes into the conversation you are in the middle of a sentence and you forget what you are saying. Most of us can recover but picture that same scenario but you are not good with English all you have to say is, "I must apologize I am still trying to learn all the meanings to all the words in your language." You now have a forgivable reason as to why you just slipped. Not only that but now the woman is more engaged in trying to help you figure out the word. She will lean in and you can place your hand in the small of her back while you talk. Instant comfort kino.

Seduction is all about finding your "weaknesses" as you see them and becoming confident enough in how good of a person you are to use those and turn them into a positive.

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